Friendship Principle

QUOTE: "Whatever and whoever fails to appreciate you, disqualifies themselves from a friendship with you."

Sometimes, in order to save the possibility of a future friendship, you have to discard a current one. You have to let it go. 

I counseled someone concerning this recently. Too often, their friend, violated basic laws of friendship. 

So, I encouraged them to read the memo being sent by their actions and cut away from them, completely, with no further communication. 

Not even fb, text or call. Let them go. In fact, delete and block them.

The reason for such an extreme measure is BECAUSE, THEY HAVE DE-VALUED YOU.

I further counseled them, that In time, their former and now, exposed, friend, will miss what exited their life. Not to return. 

Perhaps, in the distant future, a new friendship can be fashioned. 

But, then again, I said, that is probably not going to happen, because, they are not really worth the investment of your time, energy or assistance. 

HAPPENED TO ME

Little did I know, I would have to heed my own advice within hours. It HURT, but, I had to say goodbye, without ever speaking to them. 

They probably think everything is cool. I HAVE NOTHING FURTHER TO SAY .

I'm through. They have offended me the last time. 

NO GRUDGE

I won't begrudge them happiness , but, they are certainly, not a part of my future. Nor, am I a part of theirs. I wish them well. 

I am no longer available or reachable, nor will I be touchable. They crossed the last line. 

JUST GO

Sometimes, after doing all that you can, you just have to, GO!!! Not them,YOU! 

FB FRIENDS

My advice to you, in the name of Jesus, is to walk away completely from any person, relationship or even, church that hurts you regularly. 

HEAR THIS...God uses hurt, but, this, isn't God. This is them and you.

GIVE NO PASS

I'm not giving you or me a pass. For sure, we have our issues, but, at least, we don't intend to hurt people with lies, public postings, disses, etc..

But, it only continues, because, you are WEAK. Even pathetic. Sorry. If you let someone, continually, hurt you,THEN YOU ARE DESERVING OF WHATEVER YOU Allow.

The sooner you cut ties, the sooner, a true friend will come. Thank God for your former and completely desist any communication with them on any level whatsoever. 

Give it about 3 months; YOU WILL NOT FEEL A THING. Go for it!!!

Loveee you, 

Sir Brian